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Indian Matchmaking Review: adjust you a little, adjust us a little

Marriage is not a game of dolls and dolls. In this reality series of Netflix, see how many new-age Indian youth expect how difficult it is to find a suitable boy and a suitable girl from their life partner.

Indian Matchmaking

Romance reality show

Director : Smriti Mundhra

Artist : Seema Tapadia

Indian Matchmaking Review

Raje-maharajas, elephant riders, nut-madari-monkey-bear games and the viziers who disappeared by standing upright on the rope in the sky, may not be the identity of India in the world anymore, but the methods of worship, From meditation and yoga to our pompous colorful weddings, the West still surprises us. Indian wedding is a unique event for the world. That’s why Netflix’s new show Indian Matchmaking remains a topic of discussion in the world of OTT. In India, marriage is a personal affair of two families rather than a personal affair of two people of the West, so it is a bit complicated. From the groom’s tantrums, fufa’s slogans, the reception of the wedding processions and the theft of shoes, the tales of the bride’s farewell make the wedding memorable. In the olden days, pandits and pandits used to organize weddings, but now matchmakers have arrived. From open offices in the buildings to online skies, there are joints in them.

You are introduced to Seema Tapadia of Mumbai in Netflix’s eight episode reality series Indian Matchmaking. She introduces herself as the most prominent matchmaker in the country and connects you with such wealthy families, who have everything in their reach of prosperity. If nothing, a perfect relationship for the young girl or boy in the family. Some of these are in different cities of America and some in the country’s financial capital Mumbai, Delhi, Kolkata and Udaipur. Raised in Texas, Aparna grew up in New Jersey, Indian-origin Giannis Nadia, Texas-based South Indian College counselor Ganesan, a Mumbai-based diamond businessman Pradyuman, the second-ranked son of a large business family, Akshay, Delhi-based dress designer Ankita and a divorced and eight-year-old girl from Colorado (US) look for the perfect partner of beautiful Punjabi single mother Roopam in Indian matchmaking. The people whom Seema Tapadia introduces to them as their potential partners, they keep coming on the show respectively and some new stories of life are opened in front of you.

At a time when marriages are breaking up like biscuits in India, parents are worried about how to get perfect matches for their son or daughter. Everyone needs a fair complexion, a fair height, a career rocket like a rising, a cheerful nature, a caring attitude. The partner should not have tantrums, not arrogance, when the time comes, he should compromise, surrender, sacrifice, there is also a list of such demands. Everyone has to enjoy the beauty of the seaside here, but there should be no sand in the feet. These things come up interestingly in Indian matchmaking. Here, in some cases, we find how those who find partners with the barbs slowly loosen up. A variety of psychology also opens up.

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Girls involved in Indian matchmaking have generally crossed the age of marriage from traditional views. He is busy in his career. But some corner of his personal life is empty and deserted. Some girls are divorced. They have different problems. Total marriage is not perfect for girls without marriage. But where are the boys alone alone? Here in Mumbai, Pradyuman and Akshay are characters who are born with silver spoons in their mouths. Akshay’s family is under tight control of the mother. She wants to get him married at the age of 25. His elder brother is married. He is not raising the family just because he has to do this job only after the marriage of younger brother! This is the mother’s command.

In Indian matchmaking, there are also astrologers studying the future of marriage by looking at their face and horoscope. Where there is difficulty, Seema takes her help to join the relationship. The show states that getting kundalis is insurance for a successful wedding. If you find romance or emotion of a Bollywood film in this reality show, it will be difficult. The show states that matchmaking is a process. A process in which continuous use occurs. Till the experiment is successful, that is, until it becomes a matter between two people, then it has to be done. However, in the reality show of this world of 2020, some things may seem ridiculous to you.

But while watching the show, it is clear that amidst all the scientific-intellectual-emotional progress, it is clear that marriage is a relationship that you have to compromise to adjust, a little adjusting. Nobody is perfect. There is nothing like perfect. The same thing applies to this show as well. It is also realized that these real stories of looking for a bride and groom in an Indian wedding are more to entertain Western society. The reality that passes before us is less here. This show of Indian matchmaking will keep old perceptions of western society about Indian youth progressing for some more time.

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