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Sex problem FAQs :My colleague inserted his penis in my vagina. Immediately, when I …

My colleague inserted his penis in my vagina. Immediately, when I went to clean myself, I could feel some blood. Is my vagina too small?
I am a 35-year-old single woman. I have never been physically involved with anyone. I have been friends with a colleague for eight years. Six months ago, we got intimate. Since I was a virgin, the first time, we indulged in a lot of foreplay, bonding and he proceeded, only when I was ready. He inserted his finger into my vagina. However, it was very painful and he stopped. We tried the second time, and had to stop. Fifteen days ago, we engaged in a lot of foreplay, and he tried to enter, using a condom. He did not insert himself fully, but I almost screamed and he had to stop. Immediately, when I went to clean myself, I could feel some blood. I want to enjoy a satisfying sexual experience with him, since we have waited for long. Is my vagina too small? Or is there any other problem?

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Sex Issues FAQs: My girlfriend blames me for all her problems

Question: Hi! I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the last four years. But we have been facing some serious issues recently. I live in Germany and will be here for the next three years due to work. Our problem started when I could not give her enough time, which has made her believe that my behaviour towards her has changed. She is angry most of the time and talks to me very rudely. As a result of this, I too get angry and we end up fighting. Now she has been facing problems like anxiety and stress. She even blames me for this and says she cannot focus on her work because of me. She has told me to leave her alone for some time and I don’t know till when. She has even forbidden me from talking to her. We are planning to get married in three years after I return from Germany. Deep inside we both know that we need each other but because of this situation, we are not able to communicate right now. I am really stressed and I don’t know how to proceed. How can I support her? What changes should I make in myself to make her happy? How can I get her back? Your suggestions will be helpful. Thanks in advance. —By Anonymous

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