Sex problems FAQs : I have been masturbating without using my hands, by …
Q : I am 55 years old and have had a satisfying sex life with my wife. In recent years, we have cut down in frequency but invariably, have had sex at least once a month. My wife has recently had menopause, and I am wondering if it’s fine to stop using a condom while we have sex. Also, since she may have lost some interest in the act, is there a way to revive her sexual urges?
A: Oral sex is an individual choice. Remember that oral sex should be fun for both and neither should feel pressurised into doing it. The main thing to consider is whether you both enjoy the act as it is a very personal matter.
Q : I am 31 years old and have acquired a very strange fetish. I have been masturbating without using my hands, by just rubbing my penis against a pillow. Is this a concern? Can this cause any harm? Are there alternative methods of masturbating that I can move to?
A : It is alright if you do not use your hands. Make sure your pillow is clean and then you need not worry at all. Nobody else should be allowed to use this pillow however, so that no infections occur.
