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Sex problems FAQs : My wife has had no interest in sex right from the beginning of our marriage. She likes touching and…

Q : How can one be sure if one is gay? Is there a test or a quiz I can take?

A : Every gay person is unique. There is no test and you are the only person who can figure it out. Your sexual orientation may change over time. Your feelings may indicate your sexual leaning in time. Join a forum or support group to understand where you stand.

Q : I am 54 years old and my wife is 53. We have been married for 23 years and have a 22-year-old son. My wife has had no interest in sex right from the beginning of our marriage. She likes touching and hugging, but not being penetrated. Whenever I had sex with her, she was not willing. She got a hysterectomy done around 10 years back and has had no periods since. I understand that her vagina now has less lubrication. But I have urges for sex. I masturbate to get satisfaction. What can I do?

A : It is not unusual to experience dryness, especially after a hysterectomy. Vaginal lubricants will help. Also investigate if there is any other problem that needs to be talked about with your wife. Visit a counsellor who can help you both.

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