Sex problem FAQs : I am a 23-year-old woman. I am not married but …

Question : I am a 23-year-old woman. I am not married but I have sex with my boyfriend once in a month. Can this lead to some health problem?I am a 23-year-old woman. I am not married but I have sex with my boyfriend once in a month. Can this lead to some health problem?

Answer : If you or he have medical problems, it can be a cause for worry. If not, you will remain healthy. Of course, insist that he continue to use protection.

Answer : When me and my boyfriend have sex, I would prefer if he didn’t use a condom. It takes some of the pleasure away for me. What should we do?

Question : I am a 29-year-old woman and I have been in a sexual relationship with a single man. He does not wish to marry just yet, and I don’t mind not marrying either. But when we have sex, I would prefer it if he didn’t use a condom. He insists that he has to, and this takes some of the pleasure away for me. What should we do? I am happy to take contraceptive tablets to avoid pregnancy. But how can I help him get rid of his paranoia?

Answer : He is quite right in using a condom every time. The importance of using a condom is not only for preventing pregnancy, but also to avoid possible infection. Please visit a gynaecologist along with your partner. The possible safety methods to prevent a pregnancy without the use of condom will be explained to you both.

Question : Is it necessary for the foreskin to roll completely back while having intercourse?Is it necessary for the foreskin to roll completely back while having intercourse? Is it painful to have intercourse without the foreskin rolling back? Is it necessary for the foreskin to roll back even while having intercourse with a condom?

Answer : It is certainly advised that the foreskin should roll over the penis completely while having intercourse as a tight foreskin can be very uncomfortable and painful, with or without a condom.